Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him. Psalm 127:3
In this busy, chaotic, workaholic world, children are often seen as a nuisance or a road block. Having children is seen as getting in the way of plans. Many people are so focused upon their careers that they do not want to have or see any children at all.
It is very common to see or hear of a child being aborted or given up for adoption, because the child will just get in the way. Or a person does not want the child because it is so expensive to raise a child.
There are many who have some children, but also just complain about each one. The child cannot or will not do something. The child has some disability. The child requires time and attention, and much more complaints.
Solomon realized that children are a heritage and a reward from God. They are a blessing and not a nuisance.
It is true that children are expensive to raise. It is also true that a child will often break a parent’s heart with making poor choices in life. It is true that children may cause a person to have to take a different route in life.
Yet, children can also be a very great blessing. The child is someone who a person can love, mold and shape into a servant for God. He is the one who can carry on the legacy and message of God to the future generations.
A child can bring great joy when watching the child make the right decisions. He can bring joy when accomplishing something new in life. Children are also a great blessing when they return the love that is given to them.
The blessings of a child will last a lifetime. Children are a great reward from God.
You may or may not have any children, but you can see them as a blessing and a reward as God does. When God blesses you with a child, He is seeing you as able to raise the child correctly in His love and ways. He is trusting you to raise a child of His.
Take your eyes off of yourself and selfish desires and see the blessings that a child can and does give a person. See the joy of having a child in your life.
You are a child of God and God cherishes you. Do the same with the child God is blessing you with.
I pray today that you will know God’s reward in children; that God will remove fear of raising a child; that God will guide you in raising a child; that God will open your heart to love children; and that you will see children as a great reward from God.
Chad Daugherty is a friend of mine who is a missionary to Estonia. God laid this poem on his heart. It blessed me. He gave me permission to share it with you. May you also be blessed by it.